Thursday, July 10, 2008

Help taking my REALLY fat girlfriend out of the house? -

This is no joke. I met my girlfriend 1 year ago, and amazingly(and unfortunately) she has ballooned from 155 lbs to 895! I haven t the slightest idea how anyone can gain THAT much weight... but anyway, here is my problem : I want to take her out for our 1 year aniversary but I CAN T EVEN GET HER OUT OF MY HOUSE. Does anyone know a way to get her out without having to take out a wall? p.s. I would also appreciate any fast weight loss tips to help her out. Thank you for all you help!

895?? she should be bed ridden or dead

I think you need professional help to lose that much weight.

Refuse to feed her... C mon. She s fat. Tell her the only way she s getting food is to go out to dinner with you. She will go where the food goes... more than likely. :-/Also, for the weight loss thing, keep her limited to like 1500 cals. a day. It s extreme, but then again so is her size. Don t cater to her every need either. Make her get up and get the things she wants.

maybe u can just make a home-made meal.

first - check your not increasing the problem i.e buying her sugary/fatty foods and allowing her to sit all the time without moving except to go to the bathroom and stuff. don t let her be lazy make her get her own food/drinks/remote ect. also try to cook as much as you can so it s all healthy meals i.e chicken and bacon salad - tasty yet nutricious she needs to be eating roughly 2000 cals a day and no more. start encouraging exercise - get a treadmill in the house or something, also be nice to her don t make her feel uncomfortable with her weight this will make her want to eat out of comfort its a vicious cycle eating because your unhappy and feeling unhappy because your eating!!! just let her know you want to take her to her out for the evening and let her know you love her. weight shouldnt get in the way of your relationship as long as your happy and she s happy then enjoy the time your spending together!!! =)

Take her out in pieces.

What?? Thats like gaining 14lbs a week? I think she needs a doctor not a night out on the town there is something else thats causing a problem - medical problem?