Okay, i know i m fat. I m 15, and I ve been on a stable supervised healthy weight loss diet for two months and have lost 37 pounds so far. My diet is probably the greatest thing thats ever happened to me. But everytime I get called fat, or get made fun of, I just get the urge to not eat at all. Food doesnt even matter to me anymore. I know its not healthy to not eat, and could mess with my metabolism so i m trying to ignore those feelings but i m having a hard time with it. How do i get over the things people are saying to me? It s almost like i m disgusted with myself, although i m losing my weight the way i m supposed to..
tell those people that you don t like it and they should stop (ask them if they have a fat or very chubby child, will they call it fat or let other call it fat.) Don t worry, I am fat too and lots of people like me and some call me fat cause of jealously. Hey I think I m starting to like you, you are one fine girl.
it is a really awesome thing that you are taking care of yourself. you should feel really accomplished 37 pounds is A LOT! the only people who say those mean things to you are the ones who aren t comfortable in their own skin. ignore their remarks because their just shouting out how insecure they are. people like that are the ones who end up unhappy in the end. but if they go to far tell them off and never ever let them see they got to you because then they win. when they say a remark just tell them to back off and get a life.
awww sorry to hear this. unfortunately people are bastards and they probably wont stop you just need to ignore it find something to keep your mind off of it like read a book or something. congrats on losing the 37 lbs! keep it up and you will end up being one of those chicks you see on maury where people called them fat when they are young and when they get older they lose all the weight and become uber hot and then the people that make fun of them turned fat and ugly and they were kicking themselves in the head for making fun of them
simple. you tell them to f*** off!i seriously don t get why people think it s necessary to call someone fat, it s so pointless and hurtful.don t let it get to you, i don t know how much you weigh but chances are you think you look a lot heavier than you actually are, i know i feel that way.good for you! losing weight sucks, and it s not easy.just keep doing what you re doing, you sound like you ve found something that is working for you and are having some really good results.good luck! :]
You re doing what you should be doing, so you shouldn t let what other people say to you get to you. I know that s harder said than done, but many people (unfortunately) only see what they want to see - mainly someone s physical flaws and shortcomings.You should be proud of yourself, not disgusted with yourself! Look what you ve accomplished already!
Here is the rule: what other people think of you is none of your business. Keep repeating that to yourself until it is part of your thinking. In the meantime, just ignore the idiots calling you names and make a great life for yourself. Hang in there persistence always conquers:)
Don t worry what other stupid people say to you .Just continue on with your diet and exercise .You need to eat so you can gain energy and focus ...You don t have to eat ALOT just a balanced meal ..Good luck hope you can keep doing a good job losing the weight your trying to lose ..
Dont ; listen to them, my dietricitian says that you can eat as much meat, protein, that stuff as you want, but cut out the carbs, of course that may be different than a muscle diet but keep try, they dont know your life or what you may have been through
Stick with the diet and visualize what you ll look like, your only 15 you have so much time. And people I knew in high school that went anorexic ended up fatter than they were in the first place because they had to gain so much to be healthy again.
im overweight, not by much but my sis and bro call my fat sometimes, when they re gonna be that way soon... :L dont let it get to your head! and your diet is working great! you are who you are , they have to deal with it, cause your fixing that. it wil be fine :)
Like who s calling you fat? Relatives, friends, people at school?And ignore them, at least you are trying. Most of those people will probably end u pfat in the future.
i think you should do what i do. i don t care what others say . what u should is keep on eating, sure maybe more healthy. but i think your to young to watch your wieght. by the way im 16. if u want we can talk threw e mail.
keep doing what your doing and don t let what people say get to you. and don t starve yourself either, it will just screw you.
Being fat is a great and very common thing.Nearly 70% of Americans are fat, don t worry about it buddy, it s all in your little mished head!
Life sucks get used to it. Almost 2 people die every second and your complaining about this? You re doing good keep it up.
They call you that because they care about you. It s all about forcing you to eat less and less. And you re doing great. Keep it up! ;)
People are nasty, and people who act like that aren t worth ****, if you know you re a good person thats all that matters.
just dont let them get into you.. try to ignore them who cares about them you be you!
Eat healthy foods that dont fill you up alot
Calm down tubby - your not on the moon yet
People are mean, get used to it.
No worry There just mean and you should juat egnor dem
Don t listen to them. I believe in you!
i think youre gonna be hottest girl by the time youre senior in HS
your too young to worry that much ... dont let ignorant children bother you
u know what? don t worry about them because someday u will be skinnier then all of them
its hard honey it really is i went thru it when i was youger to ...everyone always calling me faT and it really lowered my self esteem.. and that is something that is hard to build back up.... you gotta think that if you pay attention most the time people make fun of people its becuase of jealousy for something that they have no matter what it is....dont let someone put out your candle to make theres burn brighter... you will lose that weight that you wanna lose and that will show that you happen to have more self controll then they do... keep it up kk