well, you sound like you are apple shaped like me. You need to focus on cardio. Start going to the gym.. Its the best way to stay in shape/ lose weight. if you gained weight on your stomach first, you ll lose it there last, but you must not give up, it takes a lot of patience. you could also try:http://yoga.about.com/od/yogasequences/s��
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Daily morning walking is best to lose weight in your stomach. Not only walking following of some restrictions in diet control.