Don t aim for anything. The reason why is that your problem isn t your weight. Your weight is a symptom of your problem. Even if you set a goal, and make it, the symptom will come back because you haven t dealt with the real problem. It varies from person to person but you either overeat, eat foods that are bad for you on a regular basis, or don t exercise regularly, or all three. Changing those things on a permanent basis should be your goal(s). If you achieve those things, the weight will come off by itself. Your body will settle at a healthy weight for you, whatever that may be.By the way, there is no ideal weight. It s just not a one size fits all kind of thing. Too many people try to aim for this artificial number, rather then simply living healthy.
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Keep up with your efforts..Good Luck